Dear John O'Connell,

If you want people to do something, try asking them politely.  It usually  
works.

Best wishes

John



On Thu, 26 Oct 2006 15:11:44 +0100, J. C. O'Connell <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>  
wrote:

> I WAS INVOLVED.
>
> Y O U   W E R E N ' T !
>
> Its pure specualtive BS coming from you &
> At my expense. That's wrong.
>
> BUTT OUT!
>
> J C O
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of
> David Savage
> Sent: Thursday, October 26, 2006 9:54 AM
> To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List
> Subject: Re: Dealing with eBay vendors. Was: Re: The JCO survey
>
> You've been carping on about this for a couple of day's now in a
> public forum. If you don't want people to comment, take it off list.
>
> Dave
>
> On 10/26/06, J. C. O'Connell <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>> Butt out.
>>
>> Stop slanderiing me with no evidence
>> Whatsover on the matter other than
>> The other partied self admitted incomplete
>> Memory of the resolution.
>>
>> You were not involved and have no
>> Right to be continuing with this
>> Nonsense based on your incorrect
>> "hunches".
>>
>> JCO
>>
>> -----Original Message-----
>> From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf
> Of
>> John Forbes
>> Sent: Thursday, October 26, 2006 4:47 AM
>> To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List
>> Subject: Re: Dealing with eBay vendors. Was: Re: The JCO survey
>>
>> On Thu, 26 Oct 2006 08:30:55 +0100, J. C. O'Connell
> <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
>>
>> wrote:
>>
>> > Yes I misread that one. Most likely because its
>> > A double negative. Most satisfactory would have
>> > Have been just as easy but you don't want you
>> > Use anything but the term unsatisfactory in your
>> > posts on the Issue of course.
>>
>> The word "satisfactory" is inappropriate in this context.  When one
> has
>> a
>> dispute, and the other person is rude and unpleasant, the outcome can
>> never be satisfactory whether one obtains a full refund or not.
>>
>> Perhaps our intellectual capabilities are rather different, but I
> don't
>>
>> think a double negative is a very difficult concept to grasp.  The
> fact
>> is
>> that the deal was unsatisfactory for both of you - you had to waste
> time
>>
>> and make a refund; Shel had to waste time and put up with your
> rudeness.
>>
>> Of course we only have Shel's word for all this, but it is supported
> by
>>
>> 400 abusive posts from you as circumstantial evidence.  And before you
>> tell me that there were only 378 or whatever, I confess that my figure
>> was
>> just a guess.
>>
>> However, I note that this latest post from you contains no abuse, just
>> sarcasm.  That is a major step forward.
>>
>> John
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>> > jco
>> > -----Original Message-----
>> > From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf
>> Of
>> > John Forbes
>> > Sent: Wednesday, October 25, 2006 10:29 AM
>> > To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List
>> > Subject: Re: Dealing with eBay vendors. Was: Re: The JCO survey
>> >
>> > On Wed, 25 Oct 2006 14:11:22 +0100, J. C. O'Connell
>> <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
>> >
>> > wrote:
>> >
>> >> Are both you and him retarded or what?
>> >> Why would he chose the LEAST satifactory
>> >
>> > Just read what I wrote, you halfwit.  "Least UNsatisfactory"
>> >
>> > Your rudeness is unbelievable, but your stupidity is worse.
>> >
>> > John
>> >
>> >
>> >> Option I gave him. He wouldn't he chose
>> >> The BEST option I gave him of course which
>> >> Was even better than a full refund including
>> >> Shipping both ways which is a complete
>> >> Cancellation of the deal with zero cost
>> >> To the customer.
>> >>
>> >> He has no freaking right to complaing if
>> >> Chose his so called worst option because that's his
>> >> Own stupidity if he is standing by that.
>> >>
>> >> Secondly, I already stated this many times,
>> >> I did not verbally abuse him and my TOTAL
>> >> Refund offer is about as good as it gets
>> >> When there is a dispute. Thirdly, did you
>> >> Read the part about where he made the dispute
>> >> WELL AFTER he received the item and I still
>> >> Gave him both the full refund offer and partial
>> >> Refund offers. You are an idiot if you
>> >> Think that I didn't treat him fairly on
>> >> That deal because that is as fair as
>> >> It gets on item condtion disputes.
>> >>
>> >> And Fourth, he thought I sold him a "PERFECT"
>> >> Lens when the listing made no such condition
>> >> Claims whatsoever. He was doomed for dissatisfaction
>> >> Right from the start if he expected a PERFECT
>> >> Lens when it wasn't listed that way. You cant
>> >> Expect MORE than listed and complain about
>> >> It if you don't get MORE than listed.
>> >> He is just being a malicious person for even
>> >> Starting this issue on the thread and IMHO
>> >> He had no right to make his initial post the
>> >> Way he did considering how that deal was
>> >> Handled by both me (good) and him (bad).
>> >>
>> >>
>> >> jco
>> >>
>> >> -----Original Message-----
>> >> From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On
> Behalf
>> > Of
>> >> John Forbes
>> >> Sent: Wednesday, October 25, 2006 5:28 AM
>> >> To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List
>> >> Subject: Re: Dealing with eBay vendors. Was: Re: The JCO survey
>> >>
>> >> On Wed, 25 Oct 2006 07:24:40 +0100, graywolf
> <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
>> >> wrote:
>> >>
>> >>> Boy, there must be something out there lessoning me. I had a
> recent
>> >> deal
>> >>> that I was not too happy about. Not the item, but the way the
> seller
>> >> was
>> >>> acting. In the end it worked out, but I was up in the air about
>> >>> feedback. Now this here, and a thread on another list made my
> think
>> > it
>> >>> through, and I realized I could not give a rating based upon what
> I
>> >>> felt, but had to base it upon how the transaction turned out. I
> just
>> >>> left him a positive.
>> >>>
>> >>> Anyone can make a mistake. All you can do when that happens is
> offer
>> >> to
>> >>> make sure it does not cost your customer anything. That means a
> full
>> >>> refund including all shipping. If John offered that then there is
>> no,
>> >>> not any, in any, way that the customer has a valid complaint.
>> >>
>> >> Sorry, I disagree. As Shel has posted, he took a partial refund as
>> the
>> >> least unsatisfactory option.  Any Ebay dispute is worrying, and I
> can
>> >> imagine that dealing with JCO would be highly traumatic.
>> >>
>> >> John
>> >>
>> >>> Now, I will be the first to note that he has no idea of when to
> shut
>> >> up,
>> >>> but he seems to share that with a lot of folks here on the list,
>> >>> including yours truly at times. But, damn it, once a deal is done
> it
>> >> is
>> >>> done. I have always hated those folks who save up complaints to
> dump
>> >> on
>> >>> you maybe years later. However, I am going to filter out any
> further
>> >>> posts with JCO in the title, flame wars are not fun to me.
>> >>>
>> >>>
>> >>
>> >>
>> >>
>> >
>> >
>> >
>>
>>
>>
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