Good revolutionist; how will the AP sect do the marriage on the day? If culture change were to be opposed by avoiding uncle lifting the bride and groom, well then why saree and not lehenga? In the north , what will they wear saree? Samskaras are variables according to the grhya sutras. Anyway good thinking KR IRS 281025
On Tue, 28 Oct 2025 at 11:28, R V Rao <[email protected]> wrote: > A family in Mumbai’s Mulund area was left stunned by the groom’s unusual > list of demands before the wedding. > However, these were not dowry-related demands — they were about bringing > dignity, simplicity, and respect back into marriage traditions! > > The groom’s conditions, which are now being widely discussed across the > city, were as follows: > > 1️⃣ No pre-wedding shoot will be done. > > 2️⃣ The bride will wear a saree, not a lehenga. > > 3️⃣ Instead of loud, vulgar music, only soft instrumental music will be > played during the wedding. > > 4️⃣ During the varmala (garland exchange), only the bride and groom will > be present on stage. > > 5️⃣ Anyone trying to lift the bride or groom during varmala will be asked > to leave the ceremony. > > 6️⃣ Once the priest begins the wedding rituals, no one will interrupt him. > > 7️⃣ The photographer/videographer will not interfere or stop the rituals > for shots — photos should be taken quietly from a distance. > “This is a sacred wedding before the holy fire, not a film shoot.” > > 8️⃣ The bride and groom will not pose unnaturally for the camera as > instructed by photographers. > > 9️⃣ The wedding ceremony must take place during the day, and the bidaai > (farewell) should be completed by evening. > This ensures guests are not inconvenienced by late-night meals (which > often cause insomnia, acidity, or indigestion) and can comfortably return > home on time. > > 🔟 Anyone who asks the newlyweds to hug or kiss in public will be > immediately removed from the venue. > > It is reported that the bride’s family happily accepted all these > conditions! > > ✨ A beautiful step towards reforming society — truly worth emulating by > all. > > A wedding is a sacred union, not a spectacle. > Respect tradition, maintain dignity, and avoid meaningless show-offs. > Please share this in your groups — let every celebration be joyful, > graceful, and respectful. 🙏💐 > > -- > You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups > "societyforservingseniors" group. > To unsubscribe from this group and stop receiving emails from it, send an > email to [email protected]. > To view this discussion, visit > https://groups.google.com/d/msgid/society4servingseniors/CAPVuisX3Tbm9bjhEW_EU9T4AD8fCDt-m5iVVF-Fqk2d33M0xow%40mail.gmail.com > <https://groups.google.com/d/msgid/society4servingseniors/CAPVuisX3Tbm9bjhEW_EU9T4AD8fCDt-m5iVVF-Fqk2d33M0xow%40mail.gmail.com?utm_medium=email&utm_source=footer> > . > -- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "Thatha_Patty" group. To unsubscribe from this group and stop receiving emails from it, send an email to [email protected]. To view this discussion visit https://groups.google.com/d/msgid/thatha_patty/CAL5XZormMV765E%3Dc44yfJ4fohJ9XkX-ja8P1gj7uv%2BV3-QiMhg%40mail.gmail.com.
