Gratitude Kural
Gratitude is an act of propitiation, where the acts are many kinds
and each deserve a limit. A politicuian gives Rs 1000 per vote, and will
you be bending yourself all the way? NO; thayt is alsp an act of gratitude;
as Tiruvalluvar says appears asif, seyyamale seyda udavikku, ; unexpected
source of help; but it is shut down by PAYAN TOOKKAAR SEYDA UDAVI; why
Krishna is helping Draoupati?; afterall small cut; but Droupati did not
hesitatte to forego her front saree; who will remove the fronbt of saree?;
there did she expect Kriushna to do anything?; NO; juyst a graceful act;
empathetic; does she not know Krishna can manage?; She knew it; but a human
who cannot bear the sufferings of any one; that kind of small piece of
cloth; and it grows into multiple sarees later; PAYAN TOOKKAAR SEDHA UDAVI.
KALATHINAL SEIDA NANDRI SIRIDENINUM SMALL CLOTH.That is seyyamal seyda
udavi. Tirukkural 104. HOWEVER RENDERING HELP IS NOT IN NEED THAT COUNTS;
ONE SHALL NOT HURT ANYONE WHICH ITSELF IS AN ACT OF GRATITUDE!! THAT IS
WHEN ONE REFRAINS FROM ABUSING OTHERS AS AN ACT OF CHIVALRY, HE DOES NOT
GET ANYTHING IN RETURN AS BOOMERANG BUT ALL REACTIONS ARE FAIR AND EVEN, AS
LONG AS ONE BEHAVES. He need not even do any good but refrain from doing
bad-is that last kural 109 before concluding the karma . Titukkural
condensed all the drops of Vedas in 10 verses in priority as seen below:
செய்யாமல் செய்த உதவிக்கு வையகமும்
வானகமும் ஆற்றல் அரிது. (௱௧ - 101)
Seyyaamal Seydha Udhavikku Vaiyakamum
Vaanakamum Aatral Aridhu (Transliteration)
ceyyāmal ceyta utavikku vaiyakamum
vāṉakamum āṟṟal aritu. (Transliteration)
Neither earth nor heaven can truly repay Spontaneous aid.
காலத்தி னாற்செய்த நன்றி சிறிதெனினும்
ஞாலத்தின் மாணப் பெரிது. (௱௨ - 102)
Kaalaththi Naarseydha Nandri Siridheninum
Gnaalaththin Maanap Peridhu (Transliteration)
kālatti ṉāṟceyta naṉṟi ciṟiteṉiṉum
ñālattiṉ māṇap peritu. (Transliteration)
A timely help, though small, Is of greater value than all the earth.
பயன்தூக்கார் செய்த உதவி நயன்தூக்கின்
நன்மை கடலின் பெரிது. (௱௩ - 103)
Payandhookkaar Seydha Udhavi Nayandhookkin
Nanmai Katalin Peridhu (Transliteration)
payaṉtūkkār ceyta utavi nayaṉtūkkiṉ
naṉmai kaṭaliṉ peritu. (Transliteration)
The help given without weighing the return, When weighed, outweighs the sea.
தினைத்துணை நன்றி செயினும் பனைத்துணையாக்
கொள்வர் பயன்தெரி வார். (௱௪ - 104)
Thinaiththunai Nandri Seyinum Panaiththunaiyaak
Kolvar Payandheri Vaar (Transliteration)
tiṉaittuṇai naṉṟi ceyiṉum paṉaittuṇaiyāk
koḷvar payaṉteri vār. (Transliteration)
To the discerning even millet of aid Is as big as a palm tree.
உதவி வரைத்தன்று உதவி உதவி
செயப்பட்டார் சால்பின் வரைத்து. (௱௫ - 105)
Udhavi Varaiththandru Udhavi Udhavi
Seyappattaar Saalpin Varaiththu (Transliteration)
utavi varaittaṉṟu utavi utavi
ceyappaṭṭār cālpiṉ varaittu. (Transliteration)
Not according to the aid but its receiver Is its recompense determined.
மறவற்க மாசற்றார் கேண்மை துறவற்க
துன்பத்துள் துப்பாயார் நட்பு. (௱௬ - 106)
Maravarka Maasatraar Kenmai Thuravarka
Thunpaththul Thuppaayaar Natpu (Transliteration)
maṟavaṟka mācaṟṟār kēṇmai tuṟavaṟka
tuṉpattuḷ tuppāyār naṭpu. (Transliteration)
Forget not the friendship of the pure, Nor forsake friends who supported in
trouble.
எழுமை எழுபிறப்பும் உள்ளுவர் தங்கண்
விழுமந் துடைத்தவர் நட்பு. (௱௭ - 107)
Ezhumai Ezhupirappum Ulluvar Thangan
Vizhuman Thutaiththavar Natpu (Transliteration)
eḻumai eḻupiṟappum uḷḷuvar taṅkaṇ
viḻuman tuṭaittavar naṭpu. (Transliteration)
The good remember through all seven births The friends who wiped their
tears.
நன்றி மறப்பது நன்றன்று நன்றல்லது
அன்றே மறப்பது நன்று. (௱௮ - 108)
Nandri Marappadhu Nandrandru Nandralladhu
Andre Marappadhu Nandru (Transliteration)
naṉṟi maṟappatu naṉṟaṉṟu naṉṟallatu
aṉṟē maṟappatu naṉṟu. (Transliteration)
To forget a good turn is not good, and good it is To forget at once what
isn't good.
கொன்றன்ன இன்னா செயினும் அவர்செய்த
ஒன்றுநன்று உள்ளக் கெடும். (௱௯ - 109)
Kondranna Innaa Seyinum Avarseydha
Ondrunandru Ullak Ketum (Transliteration)
koṉṟaṉṉa iṉṉā ceyiṉum avarceyta
oṉṟunaṉṟu uḷḷak keṭum. (Transliteration)
*Even a deadly hurt is soon effaced, if one recollects a past good turn.*
எந்நன்றி கொன்றார்க்கும் உய்வுண்டாம் உய்வில்லை
செய்ந்நன்றி கொன்ற மகற்கு. (௱௰ - 110)
Ennandri Kondraarkkum Uyvuntaam Uyvillai
Seynnandri Kondra Makarku (Transliteration)
ennaṉṟi koṉṟārkkum uyvuṇṭām uyvillai
ceynnaṉṟi koṉṟa makaṟku. (Transliteration)
One may slay every goodness and yet escape, but no escape for one who slain
gratitude.
K RAJARAM IRS 241024
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From: 'venkat giri' via iyer123 <[email protected]>
Date: Thu, 24 Oct 2024 at 07:53
Subject: [iyer123] GRATITUDE
To: Iyer <[email protected]>
*Respected sir/s,*
*SUBJECT:** GRATITUDE*
*செய்யாமல் செய்த உதவிக்கு வையகமும்*
*வானகமும் ஆற்றல் அரிது**…..* *குறள் **101:*
*ஒருவர் மீது கொண்டுள்ள நன்றியுணர்ச்சி அல்லது ஒருவருக்கு நன்றி செலுத்தும்
விருப்புணர்வு**; **நன்றி**; **நன்றியறிதல்**.*
*பிறர் செய்த நன்றியை மறப்பது என்றும் நன்றல்ல: பிறர் செய்த தீமையை அன்றே
மறப்பதன்றே நன்றாம். இது தீமையை மறக்க வேண்டுமென்று கூறிற்று. நன்றி மறப்பது
நன்று அன்று -ஒருவன் முன் செய்த நன்மையை மறப்பது ஒருவற்கு அறன் அன்று**; **நன்று
அல்லது அன்றே மறப்பது நன்று - அவன் செய்த தீமையைச் செய்த பொழுதே மறப்பது அறன்.*
*ஒருவருக்கு ஒரு நன்மையும் நாம் செய்யாத போதும்**, **அவர் நமக்கு
உதவினால்**, **அதற்குக்
கைம்மாறாக மண்ணுலகையும் விண்ணுலகயும் கொடுத்தாலும் சமம் ஆகாது* *.*
*—**சாலமன் பாப்பையா*
*GRATITUDE **is a **feeling of thankfulness **or **appreciation **for the
good things in **LIFE**, whether they are tangible or intangible. It can be
experienced in response to a Gift, Help, or Favour, or for things that
people often take for granted, like food, clean water, or friends. *
*GRATITUDE** can be a state or a **trait**. People can
experience gratitude in the moment, or it can be a positive character trait
that develops over time. Gratitude can be applied to the past, present, or
future. For example, people can be grateful for past blessings, or they can
be grateful for the good things in the present moment. *
*GRATITUDE can have many benefits, including:*
*Happiness: Gratitude is strongly associated with greater happiness.*
*Positive emotions**: Gratitude can help people feel more positive
emotions.*
*Health: Gratitude can improve health.*
*Adversity**: Gratitude can help people deal with adversity.*
*Relationships: Gratitude can help people build strong relationships. *
*Here are some ways to practice gratitude: *
*Savour the moment: Take time to enjoy the experience and absorb the good
feelings. *
*Focus on the senses**: Pay attention to the sensations and emotions one
experiences. For example, one can focus on the taste of a ripe strawberry,
the feeling of the sun on the skin, or the sound of background music. *
*Volunteer: Engaging in a specific act, such as volunteering to help
others, can make people feel good about them. *
*Regards*
*V.Sridharan*
*Trichy*
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