Read with interest both Rama and sekar views.  Out of >100 dharsana in my
40 ears, 10% we made tricks to have darshan of Perumal, (like anga
prdakshinam, and going along with VIPs gate crashing) 10% we bought high
value tickets stood in Q and had darshan and 80% had VIP darshan by HIS
GRACE itself, and every time PERUMAL SAW US. Even after sitting for 20
minutes in the first row for suprabhatham, I still felt so happy as well as
why I am not allowed to stay there itself. Jarukandi shoutings and bouncers
were off guard. KR IRS 17924   NB:   In the last decade we go to
Venkatanarayana road  T Nagar only.  Ofcourse USA has many Perumal temples
and we have a good dharsans.  KR IRS 17924

On Tue, 17 Sept 2024 at 16:15, Narayanaswamy Sekar <[email protected]>
wrote:

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> Date: Tue, Sep 17, 2024, 4:01 PM
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>
> Thank you and I can understand and appreciate your feelings.
>
> I too refused the " recommendation" route but opted for the payment
> Darshan. My justification was the payment route is available to all who can
> afford it unlike the VIP darshan where one uses / misuses his position.
>
> I felt that even the payment route was an injustice to the normal, non
> paying crowd as I met several of them where both the queues converged at
> one place and i heard their stories of waiting for more than 10 hours -
> with small children, some fast asleep, some crying with their mothers
> trying to pacify them in spite of their own fatigue.
>
> The name Govinda is the mantra that gives these people the strength to go
> thru that gruelling wait.
>
> I prayed for forgiveness for having played a part in delaying their
> Darshan.
> When you wait for more than 10 hours every minute is a burden. Just
> because we can afford to pay, we get that waiting time reduced but this
> results in them having to wait that bit longer.
>
> I hope a day comes when there is no special Darshan - no vips, no tickets
> etc but only some categories like mothers with babies, handicapped, sr or
> very senior citizens being given a somewhat direct access. Rest must share
> the same route.
>
> My Guru used to say " it does not matter whether you saw Balaji but the
> more important factor is whether He saw you".
>
> Balaji does not care whether you are a VIP or an ordinary soul but what
> matters to Him is how genuine is your Bhakthi.
>
> It may sound to be a case of sour grapes but the VIP crowd -  real, with
> recommendations etc. should realize this. They make the ordinary folks
> lives that bit more miserable. It is also a form of corruption - misusing
> one's position for special privileges one is not entitled to. I have heard
> people in my circle brag as to how they spent only a  few minutes waiting
> in the queue and how they were allowed to have an extended period of
> Darshan. They have no sense of remorse but feel others should know they are
> in a different, privileged category.
>
> The old boys network is omnipresent. Rest of us, ordinary mortals, just
> have to grin and bear it.  Balaji is watching all these though we may not
> realize it. When our turn comes to face Him, we cannot flaunt our VIP card
> or their recommendation letters. There we will all be equal. It is better
> we get used to it while being here.
>
> N Sekar
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> On Tue, Sep 17, 2024 at 1:36 PM, Rama
> <[email protected]> wrote:
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> <https://www.quora.com/profile/Veeren-Tech-Savvy>
> What are the miracles of Tirupati Balaji temple?
> <https://www.quora.com/What-are-the-miracles-of-Tirupati-Balaji-temple>
>
> *A post from linkedin ..great to read*
>
> There was a long line in Tirupati Balaji. My father refused to take VIPs
> and asked me to stand. He was 78 so I had no choice but to cooperate. for
> 6.5 hours in line we spoke many things. Maybe the highest we spoke ever any
> day. I loved that time. I also didn’t know my father speaks so much.
>
> The sanctum sanctorum came and I saw the magnificent glorious deity.
> Spellbound I was frozen. The time I felt was moving in slow motion. I was
> hearing the recitation of the crowd. And after some time all became quiet.
>
> I stared at the idol. Didn’t feel like asking for anything. Just felt
> blessed for being in its presence and felt oneness with the supreme. There
> were tears in my eyes. A feeling of contentment in my heart. I felt I have
> lived a blessed life.
>
> After a while I again came to reality. Saw the bouncer has chosen not to
> touch me while making others move faster. I said thanks to him. He said
> nothing. And we came out of the temple slowly.
>
> My father asked how did you feel? And I said wish this is life. He said
> that’s why there is hard work.
>
> A short cut, compromising principles, a vip treatment, or money can buy
> you Quick Look at your goal. But you will not feel anything worthwhile. A
> photo reel, some feed for ego, some publicity will make an illusion of your
> success and happiness to the world.
>
> But when you work hard. Give your blood and sweat. And get something. Life
> becomes this moment of content. What you get is truly deserving. It’s not
> for others. It’s for yourself. And that gives a perfect silence. A bliss.
> The true happiness of living life.
>
> True taste of success is in truly deserving it. Our heart knows when we
> deserve it. We need to truly work for it.
> Cheers
> Rama
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