meep , I feel stupid now,
The first problem is solved, it was just a gid-mail problem .. ;)
I reinstalled a few days ago and forgot to change the gid when I did the configure.
didn't see the error in the logs last time I checked though ..
The 2 last questions still stand :)
On Sat, 19 May 2
I've installed mailman
and created a couple mailing lists , and so far they seem to work fine
beside for the pending requests which are not sent to the admin
I don't receive the daily batch (I do have the line for the daily batch in the crontab)
and when I switch the 'get immediate notice of n