I found the message and it was discarded without expressed reason.
I've read this can happen in many cases.
Maybe it's because the sender's address domain is different from the
incoming smtp request.
Now I've put the sender's address in the "hold_these_nonmembers" list
and I solved. (Admin > Priva
Hello,
in my list every user is moderated. None can post. Not even owners and
moderators.
If I send an mail from an address (which is also owner and moderator) it
does'nt show up in the pending requests (it'ts been working like that for
years).
If I send an email from a subscriber/non subscriber