On Mon, May 16, 2005 at 09:30:36AM -0700, Shel Belinkoff wrote:
> 
> You present yourself as a true believer, the keeper of the flame.
> Your way is the right way, others are idiots.
> 
> Shel 

How delightfully ironic.  Shel criticising somebody else for
being (or, at least, appearing to be) overly-prescriptive.


Actually, there's a lot of truth in what Shel said.  If you go by
the on-line appearances, you'd have thought that Shel and I, for
example, would be at daggers drawn.  But we're quite capable of
sitting down in a group, amongst other photographers, and amiably
sharing a beer or two; usenet dicussion groups are by no means a
substitute for real life encounters.

It's the nature of the medium, of course - a reply or followup
to a posting will single out those areas of disagreement, and
amplify them disproportionately.  It's rare to see more than a
simple "I agree" in response to other parts of a post, and even
that small concession rarely shows up.  In a face-to-face
discussion there would have been non-verbal feedback to make
that clear; nodding, a quiet "uh-huh", or just body english.


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