Actually, at Fezziwigs, one removes one's bonnet because it is difficult to see while one is dancing. While on a short visit to the Adventurer's Club or Tavistock House, one leaves one's bonnet on; if one is staying to have tea or dine, one removes it. Sharon
-----Original Message----- From: h-costume-boun...@indra.com [mailto:h-costume-boun...@indra.com] On Behalf Of Carol Kocian Sent: Saturday, November 19, 2011 9:52 AM To: Historical Costume Subject: Re: [h-cost] Not tying your bonnet strings ? If I may presume - at the Dicken's Fair, going from "inside" to "outside," they may be portraying the residents of the house and not 19thC visitors to the house. It sounds like they are making concessions to the theatrical nature of the fair. -Carol On Nov 18, 2011, at 8:25 PM, Elizabeth W wrote: > I actually recall reading a mid 19th century ettiquette manual which > specifically states that when paying a formal call you don't take your > bonnet off unless sincerely pressed to do so by your host/ ess as it's > essentially a sign that you are planning on staying for a while (and > formal calls were supposed to be no more than 15-20 minutes). I've > used the analogy of taking your shoes off in a modern context which > would be interpreted as 'making yourself at home'. A bonnet is not > something you whip on and off every time you move from inside to > outside. > > Elizabeth > On Sat, Nov 19, 2011 at 9:36 AM, Sharon Collier > <sha...@collierfam.com> wrote: >> Interesting. I wear a bonnet at the Dickens Christmas Fair and I >> often do not tie my bonnet under the chin, but rather lower down. >> I do this purely for practical reasons---it makes the bonnet so much >> easier to get on and off. We have to be going from "inside" >> to "outside", depending on where we are at the fair and just being >> able to pop it on without struggling with the ribbons is so much >> easier. I will add that mine is balanced so that I do not "need" >> the ribbons or a hatpin to keep it on. >> Sharon C. _______________________________________________ h-costume mailing list h-costume@mail.indra.com http://mail.indra.com/mailman/listinfo/h-costume _______________________________________________ h-costume mailing list h-costume@mail.indra.com http://mail.indra.com/mailman/listinfo/h-costume
