Orphaned Server processes

[Udo Kohlmeyer]

Hey there,

Current Geode allows a user to start a server without being linked to a 
Locator. Which in itself is not incorrect, but once started there is no 
way to connect to that server to manage it.

I know that we have taken an opinionated view that member discovery can 
only now happen through a locator and that multicast is an option anymore.

Can we take the same opinionated view where we either state that unless 
your server is connecting to a locator, it cannot be started OR we fix 
the default behavior where we can start a server but cannot connect to 
it, and have to resort to "kill -9" commands to kill the server.

--Udo