On Saturday, March 15, 2025 2:14:12 PM Mountain Standard Time Paul Tagliamonte 
wrote:
> On Sat, Mar 15, 2025 at 02:06:45PM -0700, Soren Stoutner wrote:
> > > At this point, why not file the bug and see what the listmasters do?
> > 
> > If Alexander indicates that he would be willing to implement the change
> > if I file a bug report then I will do so.
>
> You disagree with a delegate. You're now attempting to use the "threat"
> of a GR to bypass having a real conversation with the person responsible
> for enforcing the decision you want?

I thought I was having a real conversation with everyone on debian-devel.

> Actual question for you, Soren -- are you happy with how this is going?

I am a bit surprise at the vitriol this conversation has generated, meaning not 
just that 
some people disagree with my proposal, but that some people have responded with 
personal attacks instead of focusing on the technical issue being discussed.

I have a lot of respect for those who have disagreed with me and focused on the 
technical 
issue being discussed in a helpful way.  Through them I have learned a number 
of things 
about why things are the way they currently are and the workflows that various 
people 
use.
 
> Alexander has been incredibly helpul and forward leaning over the years.
> Perhaps overworked, but I can't imagine starting the conversation off in
> this way is the best way of going about this.
>
> Why don't you approach the listmaster team in a lower stakes way and
> have a conversation understanding what their point of view actually is
> rather than trying to guess here.

A week ago, before proceeding with the decision to propose a GR, I asked the 
following 
question on the debian-devel thread:

“At this point in the discussion I would like to progress toward a decision.”

“One way to do so would be a GR.  On one hand, using a GR to modify one line of 
the code 
of conduct for the mailing list seems like a rather large hammer for a rather 
small 
problem.  But on the other hand, many people feel strongly enough about this 
that a GR 
might be the only mechanism where people will feel like the outcome is fair.”

“My question is, is there any other decision making process that would be 
preferable to a 
GR to decide this issue?”

https://lists.debian.org/debian-devel/2025/03/msg00199.html

Nobody at the time offered any other venue for making a decision, including 
filing a bug 
against l.d.o.  As I have already mentioned, I don’t think l.d.o is the correct 
place to make 
this decision because this policy is larger than just the mailing lists and by 
this point in the 
conversation it had become clear to me that those who were against the change 
felt very 
strongly about it, so that asking l.d.o to make a decision was unlikely to 
satisfy them.

> I don't think listmaster@ really needs to reply to this with "yes/no", I
> think the whole premise and escalation here is a great indicator y'all
> need to have a chat off-list or something, which likely needs to be
> driven by you, Soren, and not try to keep jamming this through -- that's
> only going to build resentment throughout the project and start yet
> another stupid rift that we'll infight over for years. I'd love to avoid
> that.

I really don’t think that anything I have done could be described as jamming 
anything 
through.  I feel like I opened a respectful discussion on debian-devel.  When 
that reached 
the stage where it was obvious that a consensus decision was not possible, I 
moved to the 
appropriate place for making Debian-wide decisions, which is the GR.

-- 
Soren Stoutner
[email protected]

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