On 30 May, Steve Lamb wrote: > Monique Y. Mudama wrote: >> Ignoring the first sentence, I agree. > >> I'm a very selfish person right now; I don't get enough sleep, enough >> toys, and enough time with my hubby as is. I don't have the time and >> resources for a dog, so I don't have one of those, either. Even though, >> in marked contrast to children, I actually want a dog. > > Actually, when one gets down to it the vast majority of people who have > children have them for purely selfish reasons.
????? What do you base this on? In my experience, it's a very small minority who have children for purely selfish reasons. > I have found that those who do > not want children *and follow through with it* are not selfish at all. > They're refreshingly honest. > I don't think that selfishness and having or not having children are at all correlated. -Chris ------------------------------------------------------------------------ | Christopher Judd, Ph. D. | | Research Scientist III | | NYS Dept. of Health [EMAIL PROTECTED] | | Wadsworth Center - ESP | | P. O. Box 509 518 486-7829 | | Albany, NY 12201-0509 | ------------------------------------------------------------------------ -- To UNSUBSCRIBE, email to [EMAIL PROTECTED] with a subject of "unsubscribe". Trouble? Contact [EMAIL PROTECTED]