Hello Pino, Am Freitag, 21. August 2015, 09:45:59 schrieb Pino Toscano: > > Honestly as far as I see it Maxy agreed to your accusations, apologize, > > has > > giving as reasonable explanation why this happened, > > Please do read the other reply I wrote yesterday, This is not the first > time such things happened, it's a cyclic issue that keeps repeating.
>From your wording I gather that you think Maxy will never change his behavior – driven by your reception of the past experiences you had with him. But he just promised he will try hard to. > On my side, I actually don't care about this anymore. which is your free decision to do even though I think you actually do care a lot, cause from what I perceive you put a lot of your emotional energy into your last mail. As I understand things I can never ever sustainably and directly change someone else´s behavior as we are all free will beings. Yet, you can invite and allow for change to happen, model behavior that you think is good and change your way you deal with behaviors of others. >From knowing Maxy a bit from DebConf I fully assume good intentions. As much as I understand that you seem to be frustrated with his past behavior for which he said sorry. So are you willing to set yourself free and forgive him (at least after some time) and probably even assist him in changing? Thank you, -- Martin
